May 15 2013

How exercise can help people cope with their loss

 How exercise can help people cope with their loss

There are different types of loss; death, divorce, break ups, even the loss of a pet can inflict grief. Grief is the natural response to a significant loss. It is much more involved than sadness and healthy methods of coping must be implemented. How can exercise help people cope with their loss? 

Taking care of yourself is always important but especially during times of emotional turmoil. The mind and body are connected, one will always affect the other. There are

physical symptoms of grief such as, fatigue, weight loss or gain, aches, pains, and insomnia. A good way to ease the physical soreness is through exercise. It will release all that tension in your muscles. Exercise combats fatigue by improving circulation and invigorating you. It reduces anxiety and levels of cortisol, a stress hormone that effects weight. 

While there are 5 stages to grief (Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance) it can still be experienced like a roller-coaster. These stages don’t always happen in order, you may have highs and lows. This is completely normal and exercise is a great way to keep your hormones balanced. 

Research shows the same neurotransmitters targeted by antidepressants are also affected by exercising. Exercise is a natural mood booster. It releases endorphins, those “feel good” chemicals, into your body.

Assistant Professor J. Carson Smith, from the Department of Kinesiology at the University of Maryland, studies how physical activity affects brain function. Smith found, that not only does exercise reduce anxiety, it helps protect against future emotional distress as well. His subjects were either instructed to rest for 30 minutes, or workout for the same amount of time. While anxiety levels reduced in both groups, only those who had exercised were able to maintain their reduced levels of anxiety after being emotionally stimulated.  

On a psychological level, exercise serves as a distraction and it also helps restore a sense of control. When coping with loss, one of the symptoms is a feeling of helplessness. You could feel helpless to your feelings, helpless to your current situation, and helpless to get back what you lost. When you’re exercising, you’re in control of your body, its movements and your physique. It makes you feel stronger inside and out.

Whether you do vigorous activities like running and cycling or lighter activities such as Yoga or taking short walks, 30 minutes of activity is enough to reap the mood boosting benefits. Keep in mind there is no “correct” amount of time for the grieving process. It will lessen with time. Seek professional help if you’re having trouble moving on to the acceptance stage and begin to suffer from severe depression.




May 14 2013

Foursquare’s $41m Buys Time for Company to Locate Revenue

Speaking to TheNextWeb’s Paul Sawers, Crowley noted, "We have to crunch your 3,500,000,000 check-ins, layer your social data over it, semantically analyze our tens of millions of tips, and take a look at real-time activity around you. We do all that in under a second, all to recommend two or three places that are perfect for you."

This is a much different approach than the aggressive growth fueled by low-margin ’flash-sales’ advertisers pursued by Groupon, whose stock price happens to be down 69% since it’s IPO back in 2011. But only time will tell what becomes of Foursquares slow growth strategy. But now that it’s focused more than ever on monetization strategy, or so it seems by opening up more advertising channels, and driving users to those channels, we should an pretty good idea of the effectiveness and profitability.

As soon as the end of this year users will be targeted by advertisers based on their location as noted by Frier, "That means when a shopper goes to Best Buy, Samsung will be able to send them ad ad for it’s TVs."

 




May 14 2013

Islam: Hijab in the work places

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Salaam alaykum or Peace be upon you. Wearing Hijab in the workplace needs to be done from the day you start your job. Otherwise it may create an issue with the employer if you suddenly change your dress. At the very least, it will be uncomfortable to walk into work in hijab after you have been there without it. But this can be done and other Muslim sisters have taken

this step.

If your work requires a uniform with short sleeves then you must purchase a black long sleeve undershirt to wear under the uniform. And wear long loose pants or a full length skirt. Black, red, navy or gray are the most professional colors for this. Then match your hijab to your undershirt by wearing a black plain hijab that’s not loose and does not flow, for safety reasons. A two piece al amira hijab works best because they are quiet fitted and snug. They can not get caught up in machines if you work in a factory, or fall into foods if you work in food service.

The hijab at work will present some issues to others. For example, you might get other coworkers starting to wear inappropriate things like ball caps and hoodies at work because they wrongly assume you are taking liberties at work. This is why its important for you to confront your boss yourself on the first day in private and explain to him that you are Muslim and have changed your appearance for religious reasons only. In most countries freedom of religion is respected and your boss has to allow you certain religious accommodations. But if you do not confront your boss in a friendly, proactive way then you may end up with some negative feedback from other coworkers and some drama in the workplace.

There are plenty of youtube users who make hijab tutorials for work and you may like to browse youtube for instructions on how to wear hijab at work. They give different styles for different people and there are plenty to choose from. Some popular videos are: sister amenakin, sister Zukreat, and user alz786uk.

Remember, that hijab is part of Islam and if someone loses her job for putting on hijab (which should be reported to the national human rights tribunal in their country) then it was part of Allah’s plan. Do not be sad because whatever losses occur for obeying Allah, will be rewarded with a much greater blessing in future. Maybe giving up a bad job because of hijab will bring a person to Jannah/heaven, Allah knows.